what i can't say or maybe I missed out a few things, I'll try to say them here

Sometimeswhen one thing goes wrong, everything starts falling apart.
you sudd feel that there's so many decisions you have to makebut take a breather
and start with the easiest problem.
i know it sounds so contradictingbut you don need to solve all your problems at the same time.
solve one, the easiest then u can have the motivation to solve the other bigger problems

when you feel that you're going to break down and the world is eating u whole,
sometimes being alone helps.
not even with friends but alone
go somewhere urself, the beach, airport, whatever and just sit there and stone. haha
very idiotic but it works for me. and sometimes, all u need is a good cry alonewith the sea breeze blowing against ur faceand the smell of salt water as salty as ur tears
so poetic yes.

i say alot of sometimes because these things don't apply all the time
there are times u need friends but there are also times when all you need is to be alone.
and whatever helps.

everyone needs love in their lives but it doesn't mean you'd be better and easier with a boyfriend dear.
go with what's best for yourself and not anyone else.
and also it doesnt mean that if you've been hurt, (because some guys can be a bastard), it will always be that way.

to my darling friends who feel like life sucks. chin up, be strong
and like how you've been there for me,thank you and I hope I can be as much help
I'm here for you...
maybe get a cat. they help relieve some amount of stress. =D